I am Daddy An Li, Professional Dominatrix. And if you’re good, you can be my bitch.
I know you’ve been scared to submit to a Domina. Endless days and nights thinking about it, jerking off to it, dreaming about it. Days of longing turn into weeks, turn into months, turn into years. How long have you spent lusting over my images and videos? Following my every word on Twitter? Wondering what it feels like to truly be in my thrall? To be crawling on your knees, vulnerable and begging for my control?
It’s time you did something about it. It’s time you learned what true submission felt like. It’s time you finally gave in. You’ve needed this.
And I’ve been expecting you.
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slaveboysmith: You are very obviously a strikingly beautiful woman and with beauty comes the ability to control men easily. With that said, many beautiful women do not end up becoming a Dominatrix. What was it that drew you to the world of Femdom, and when did you first realize the power you hold over others?
Daddy An Li: I’ve always been mean and dominant. I used to boss boys and girls on the playground and tell them what to do, and my favorite playground game was kicking boys in the shins and then their balls. I’ve always been the petite person who could quickly command a room and convince people to be on my side and listen with rapt attention. I’ve been told that I’m…deeply persuasive. One of my good friends recommended that I become a Dominatrix — unbeknownst to me, she was already deeply entrenched in the kink scene and saw my potential. I applied for a local dungeon, had my first intense BDSM scene as a Pro-Domme, quickly saw a future for myself doing this forever, and it’s been like that ever since.
sbs: For those who have not deep-dived into your erotic Femdom world, how would you describe your style as a Domme? What are some of your favourite fetishes to explore, either in session with a submissive or in your clips?
DAL: I’ve described myself as a Bully-Next-Door: casual, humiliating, and irreverent. I have been told that I am surprisingly funny and easy to be around, but also terrifying. My play tends to fall more on the humiliating side of things, but I like to temper it up with a playfulness to keep people on their toes. “Will they be cruel? Or will they crack a joke?” I think it’s important to keep people uncertain about my motives. I also adore physical humiliation of all kinds — CBT, ballbusting, toilet play, predicament bondage, corporal punishment — anything to keep someone terrified about what might happen next.
sbs: Speaking of clips, do you have a favourite clip you’ve produced that is “must buy” for all reading this as soon as they visit your iWantClips store?
DAL: For my gross humiliation booty sluts, I would recommend “Fart Compilation 3” or “Visit Me, Toilet”. For my smelly gooners, I’d recommend the “Edging to My Scent” series. And for those looking for a bit of sensual CBT, I suggest the “Restrained in Rubber” series.
Restrained in Rubber: Full Movie
sbs: What do you look for in a truly special submissive that you enjoy having serve you?
DAL: I seek selfless, true submission in the form of service and financial generosity. True submission comes from subs who seek to go above and beyond in demonstrating value by showing that they are putting me above themselves. I appreciate subs who are detail-oriented and can anticipate what I want and need from observing who I am and what I talk about. Finally, I have a strong financial component to submission — if you cannot contribute to my life in the most basic form of value, AKA with money, then what makes you stand out over all the other thousands of subs who have reached out to serve me?
sbs: For men like me, falling under your spell deeper with every response, how may we serve you?
DAL: You can start by sending financial tributes and gifts. That is the easiest way to serve from afar.
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sbs: Thank you for your willingness to share your story with iWantBlog. As always, the final words are yours. Might you tease us with any upcoming projects or news of what you are working on as we dream of serving you soon?
DAL: I’m building a custom studio to shoot and play out of, and by 2025, you should see all my videos in a new setting. Contribute by sending me tips for this large construction project.
sbs: I have no doubt that after reading this interview, our readers are going to be eager to follow you and learn more about their new obsession. May I ask you to share your Twitter handle and ask a little about what new submissives might find once they enter your online world?
DAL: Of course.
- Twitter thoughts: @TheDaddyAnLi
- Twitter video updates: @Daddy_AnLi
- Instagram: @mistress_anli
- Website: youremybit.ch

can I serve you gorgeous?