Her striking beauty will overwhelm you, yet you’ll be drawn to her magnetism. Gorgeous Goddess Bella is the subject of this iWantBlog interview, and she is as captivating in interview as she is in her clips and in-person domination. Get lost in those hypnotic eyes as she unleashes all manners of cruelty and humiliation upon you as you beg for more. Often found joining forces with her Double Domme partner, Goddess Imogen, together they form a dangerous and diabolical alliance that would wither and ruin any man before them. So, sit back, get comfortable and prepare yourself for what Goddess Bella The User has in mind for you. Remember, you wanted this!
Goddess Bella The User (@Bellatheuser)
slaveboysmith: You are very obviously a strikingly beautiful woman and with beauty comes the ability to control men easily. With that said, many beautiful women do not end up becoming a Dominatrix. What was it that drew you to the world of Femdom, and when did you first realize the power you hold over others?
Goddess Bella: I have always been someone who embraced Femdom without even consciously doing it. I realised early on I could use my looks and sexuality to get ahead, especially when it came to the male species. I was always getting things like my car fixed for free, free drinks, big discounts etc. simply by showing men a bit of my attention, so I decided to use it to my advantage.
I’m naturally quite bossy and bratty so it just developed from there really. I worked in a lap dancing club alongside a vanilla job and whereas some of the girls there would flirt with the clients to make them “fall in love”, I was more seducing and demanding to get what I wanted. They wanted to please me. When I realised I could make a happy living from just being myself and dominating men, Goddess Bella was born.
sbs: For those who have not deep-dived into your erotic Femdom world, how would you describe your style as a Domme? What are some of your favourite fetishes to explore, either in session with a submissive or in your clips?
GB: My style as a Domme is a little bit bittersweet. I will often adapt to the sub who is serving at the time (and depending what mood I am in that day lol). I can be encouraging and nurturing but also bitchy, cruel and demanding. I also like to be able to have a laugh with my subs and let my sense of humour and personality shine through in my sessions. My top 3 favourite fetishes to explore are Findom, humiliation and chastity.
Findom is the ultimate submission, it’s all about giving to me and getting absolutely nothing in return. I get such a thrill from seeing how weak and brainless my subs get for me. Humiliation is where I have my fun – dishing out tasks for the sub to complete. I love doing double Domme sessions with Goddess Imogen, where we make subs complete humiliating tasks while we both sit there laughing at them. It’s always hilarious and will always be one of my favourites. We also love getting subs messy with food play.
Chastity will always be one of my favourites. Having a sub locked and denied while I control when they can stroke, and orgasm feels great. Teasing them with their favourite kinks and the thought I may let them unlock, only to deny them again hehe, oh and watch their cocks shrink as they wear the cage for prolonged periods. I often get my subs to swap to smaller cages throughout their journey. It’s also a great way for subs to test their own mental strength and will power.
sbs: Speaking of clips, do you have a favourite clip you’ve produced that is “must buy” for all reading this as soon as they visit your iWantClips store?
GB: I would say my fart clips lol. They’re not something every Domme has and the fact that even my farts can make a man weak is just the best. Worshipping my farts is humiliating.
sbs: What do you look for in a truly special submissive that you enjoy having serve you?
GB: The subs I enjoy having serve me the most are those who are clear with communication, who are genuinely submissive and about pleasing me rather than just indulging in a kink when it suits them, and they feel horny. It’s about what I want and making me happy. If you need a break that’s fine but communicate – be polite and respectful. Subs are bad for just ghosting. I also like someone I can have a laugh with.
sbs: For men like me, falling under your spell deeper with every response, how may we serve you?
GB: The first thing you can do is approach with a tip to get my attention. Do some research on what you think I might like and expect from you. Be polite and tell me a bit about yourself (but not an essay please!) and why you want to serve me, and we can go from there. Remember – it’s your job to please and obey me.
sbs: Thank you for your willingness to share your story with iWantBlog. As always, the final words are yours. Might you tease us with any upcoming projects or news of what you are working on as we dream of serving you soon?
GB: I hope you’ve enjoyed reading this. I hope to upload some longer clips soon. I have ordered some amazing new outfits, which I can’t wait to show you. For all the subs out there, embrace your kinky side – you will be celebrated here! Approach respectfully and properly and I am more than happy to hold your hand on the beautiful journey into Femdom….
