Femdom is all about control. Women taking it, and men submitting their will to a beautiful Goddess who has all the power. And what could be more symbolic and meaningful than surrendering all control of one’s pleasure to another? This month marks the turn of the calendar to October, but in the world of BDSM, this is more commonly known as Locktober. Dommes will be collecting keys as men willingly allow their cock to be locked into chastity for as long as his keyholder wishes. This will be exciting, agonizing and a challenge to even the heartiest of submissives. So, gentlemen, who’s getting locked up this Locktober?
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In this iWantBlog feature we eagerly anticipate, and perhaps dread, what these beautiful Dommes have in store for us during the upcoming month of Locktober. And for this endeavor we welcome a wicked group of tease and denial experts in Goddess Davina, Miss Lucid, Goddess Violet Voss and Princess Rebelle Hart. Each will share their vision for a frustrating month ahead, as well as commenting on other aspects of what makes chastity so much fun…for them!
slaveboysmith: Welcome ladies and let me begin by asking what special plans you have in mind for this upcoming challenge to your submissives.
Princess Rebelle Hart: What an incredibly hot group of Dommes to be a part of! I love it. As usual, my plans for Locktober are devious and adorable. This year, my theme is “Gaslit by GF”. In this series, I am your bratty girlfriend who has always been demanding, out of your league, and totally uninterested in your dick, lol. But I was talking (and laughing) about it with all my hot girlfriends, and they told me all about chastity! I come home and tell you how chastity is totally normal in relationships like ours and trying it out for Locktober will save our relationship. Each week we will try out new and exciting things that will really strengthen us as a couple. Plus, with your beta dick caged, that really frees me up for bigger and better things…
Goddess Davina: This Locktober I will be treating my horny denied devotees with a very frustrating and deliciously devious Locktober Davina Clip Drip Series. I also have a special Locktober group for participants that want to take the fun and control even further. Joining my Locktober group will give them instant access to my strict guidance, exclusive teases, devious tasks, and early access to all of 2024’s Locktober Davina Clip Drip Series.
Miss Lucid: For the upcoming month of October, I have two options for subs; Locktober (tangible chastity) and Goontober (mental chastity). Both rosters are filling up faster than I anticipated and I’m excited to see how the month pans out for these two groups of subs!
Goddess Violet Voss: I’m thrilled to be part of this Locktober line-up. Trust Me, this month will be electrifying. I’ve crafted a 7-day Locktober challenge that will leave My subs trembling with anticipation and frustration. While others might endure the whole month, I prefer to focus all that delicious suffering into something far more intense. Whether seasoned in chastity or new to denial, My subs will be pushed to their absolute limits, aching for a release they’ll never get—just how I like it.
sbs: Though not all men are up to the agony and frustration that comes with being locked away, chastity continues to be a highly popular genre on iWantClips. What do you think it is about having our pleasure locked away while being teased by a beautiful woman that so appeals to so many men?
ML: I think Locktober is a great opportunity to experience total power exchange. One month of being locked away is plenty for a novice and a perfect “tune-up” for someone who has experienced with chastity. Like a recent analogy that I had tweeted about; being teased, tormented and edged in an endless loophole in your gooncave while seeing a light at the end of the tunnel (reality) – I will let you go near the light, but will always seduce you back into the darkness with my power over you. Being locked in chastity for a month under the guidance and seduction of Miss Lucid may expose you to glimpses of what it might be like to be under my control and ultimately serve me with a life of denial ahead for you. Locktober gives subs a way to experience wonderfully different Domme styles, and through this experience, may pave the way for the possibility of still serving that Domme, long after Locktober is over.
PRH: Men are ruled by their dicks and their hopeful (and often unrealistic) ideas about the possibilities of sex. Being caged takes sex off the table and allows them to focus on what really matters – serving hot brats. That gives them purpose and makes them feel so fulfilled. It is a myth that chastity takes away sexual pleasure though. The constant sensations of the cage make them perma-horny, but the constant denial of sex makes them sooooo eager to please. It is the perfect system.
GD: While not all men may be up to the agony and frustration that comes with being locked away, I do think all men have an inherent instinct to gain and be worthy of their beloved’s approval. I believe that this desire fuels the submission they so willingly display. When we look into the male psyche, we know that men love to chase, even if it is just a really naughty hot kinky feeling in that cock. The longer and more brutal the chase the better. Here in this sensual yet extremely frustrating sensory overload is where the male fully breaks and surrenders to whatever erotic experience and mental games she wants him to experience. That’s hot af! Chastity is the ultimate “I’m going to guide you by your dumb dick to your very own delicious demise” experience. What man wouldn’t want to endure 31 days of sensual erotic torment?
GVV: It’s simple. Men crave the control that comes from surrendering to a powerful Woman like Me. When they give up control of their cock, they’re left aching, desperate, and turned on. For My subs, it comes down to two things: the intoxicating power exchange or the realization they’re unworthy of cock freedom. That privilege is reserved for Alphas who know how to please Women like Me.
sbs: Are there other fetishes that mix well with creating chastity content, whether during Locktober or otherwise?
ML: With the right mindset, there are a lot of fetishes that mix well with Locktober. With my existing long-term subs, they are offered a highly customized Locktober experience paired with different kinks and fetishes that we play with. I have several subs into heavy blackmail, so I incorporate Locktober with blackmail games mixed with Findom. Other long-term subs enjoy being a cuck, a fetish that pairs together wonderfully with Locktober.
PRH: So many fetishes play well with chastity. In the past, I have incorporated sissy training, friend-zoned themes, CEI, and more. I think you can imagine what types of kinks might be included in this year’s Gaslit by GF series…
GD: Well, being the financial sadist that I am, I would obviously say Findom. Remember what I was saying about seeking approval of their beloved? That’s how they can earn mine. Other fetishes that blend well with chastity would be cuckolding, sissification, and humiliation. Basically, any pussy free simp and or scandalous sissy whore should and must be locked up.
GVV: I love mixing in other fetishes to intensify the experience. Blending chastity with financial domination is a favorite—nothing makes a sub more desperate than staying locked until they’ve satisfied Me financially. For those into encouraged or forced bi, locking up their cocks ensures their focus is on becoming the perfect slut for Me, not their own pleasure.
sbs: On your Twitters, you each hint at what you may already have created for Locktober, but also what is to come in your iWantClips stores. Do you have a favourite Locktober themed clip of yours that is going to completely ruin all our readers once purchased?
ML: My most current Locktober and Goontober clips are created in a way to suit all levels of slaves who want to be locked up as well as gooners who prefer “mental chastity” (through gooning). My Locktober clip features an easy mode and hard mode; however, since gooning is universal, Goontober offers only one mode – however there is still absolutely NO cumming. In a way, Goontober is trickier than Locktober. Goontober is mental chastity (edging yourself into oblivion with no release for a whole month) while Locktober offers you a tangible tool to lean on (chastity device).
PRH: Ooooh tough question! The entire “Gaslit by GF” series is an intense ride of self-discovery and bratty mindfuckery. But in week 4, things take a very unexpected erotic turn that will leave you totally breathless. I also always have the best time coming up with fun little exclusive extras for my participants and this year is no different.
GD: My favorite Locktober themed clip I have lined up for my fans is, “Quitting Feels Better”. This savage mindfuck will entice the viewer to play a very dangerous game with Davina that will test even the most determined and devoted participants. For a very hefty fee all the suffering of chastity could end but are the devastating consequences worth it? This will be the ultimate tease!
GVV: Oh, trust Me, My 7-day, 7-clip Locktober series will completely ruin anyone brave enough to dive in. Each clip is designed to push My subs to their limits, with mind control as the underlying theme. I won’t just lock up their cocks—I’ll have their minds fully controlled too. It’s about owning them entirely!
sbs: Can you discuss any industry trends or changes you’ve observed in the demand for Locktober content and participation in this yearly event?
ML: For as far as I can remember, Locktober has always been a fun event during every October. As more subs find their way to Femdom/Findom, they will naturally discover Locktober, and this is something that curious submissives should definitely experience at least once. Being locked and denied for the right Domme is psychologically addicting.
PRH: Every year there is more interest and every year there are more Dommes. Locktober can only get bigger and better. My registration is bigger and better every single year, and I love that for me.
GD: Industry trends or changes I’ve observed? I couldn’t say, I stay focused on my empire and the kinky needs of my devotees.
GVV: I’ve noticed that not every submissive is brave enough for a full month of chastity; some only dare to dip their toes in. That’s why I’m creating a shorter, more intense series—perfect for those who crave My control but can’t handle the full Locktober torment. You’ll still be left aching and desperate, but in a more manageable dose of suffering.
sbs: Do you have any advice for new Dommes just starting to create Locktober content or planning challenges for their submissives?
ML: Be creative and hone in on fetishes that you personally enjoy to mix it into your version of Locktober! True submissives can tell when you’re truly enjoying your craft and when you’re just monetizing something for the sake of it. That’s why it may be better to focus on kinks and fetishes that YOU like to dabble in as well.
PRH: My advice is simple, dive right in and create something fun that makes you feel passionate about caging men’s dicks. For me, “Gaslit by GF” is exactly that.
GD: My advice for new Dommes dipping their toes into Locktober, would be to be creative, be original, have fun with the content you are making, and understand the psychology behind what drives these subs.
GVV: My advice? Always pay attention to what your fans want. Not every Domme has a fanbase begging for Locktober or chastity content, so ask them directly or review your top-selling clips. That way, you can create something perfectly tailored to your audience. As for Me, I know My subs are addicted to edging and gooning, so after My Locktober series, I’ll be unveiling a challenge focused entirely on that. Make it personal, make it intense, and watch them quiver!
Visit each of the Dommes in this feature at their IWC store for current and upcoming Locktober clips and more by clicking on their names below:
