There is so much talk around male masturbation and what makes men reach an orgasm, that this topic is completely ordinary. That’s not the case when it comes to female masturbation though in real life, almost as if that was something wrong, or something to be ashamed of this type of sexual pleasure.
Not only is it nothing to be ashamed of, but female masturbation is a very normal thing to do for sexual health. Besides having very high pleasure potential, clitoral stimulation helps reduce stress and improve sleep.
How to Get Started
Before trying any sexual stimulation you need to relax your entire body and make sure you are in the right mindset and environment during sexy time. You can set the mood by turning down or adjusting the lights, lighting a candle, and infinite yourself with visual stimulation by watching ethical porn, listening to audio porn, or playing some favorite songs.
Don’t rush it, take your time and play with yourself while you let your mind wander. Let yourself fantasize about what makes you horny. Explore your hot spots and find out what turns you on the most to build up sexual tension. Always keep a couple of drops of masturbation lube nearby, in case you need it.
Types of Stimulation
Clitoral Stimulation
Clitoral stimulation means playing with your clitoris. To do so, you can use your fingers or clitoral vibrators, depending on what you like more. When you experience a clitoral orgasm, you’ll feel a tingly sensation along your skin and in your brain.
Vaginal Stimulation
Vaginal stimulation requires penetration, which can be done by using your fingers or bullet vibrator, again depending on your preferences. When you experience an intense orgasm, also known as the “Big O”, your vaginal walls will throb and you will feel it deeper in your body.
Anal Stimulation
For achieving an anal orgasm, you can use a sex toy if you like a deeper penetration, or your fingers if penetration (or deep penetration) is not crucial for reaching an orgasm. In this case, do not forget to use water-based lube for internal stimulation, as this part of the body does not self-lubricate. You may feel an intense need to pee right before reaching an orgasm, but the contractions will be around your anal sphincter.
Of course, you can combine different types of masturbation if that gives you more pleasure!
Masturbation Techniques for Pleasure
Here is What You Can Try If You Want to Experience a Clitoral Orgasm:
Start direct stimulation of the fleshy area on the top of your pubic bone, then run your fingers along your outer and inner lips. Start rubbing your clitoris through the hood. You can also form a “V” with your pointer and middle finger and slide them up and down your clitoris. Move your fingers faster and harder once your clitoris becomes wet or after you’ve applied lube. Intensify sexual satisfaction by applying heavy pressure until you orgasm.
Using a vibrator is a great way to stimulate your clitoris. Just run your sex toy up and down the area until you get off.
Note: One of the best positions for achieving the strongest orgasm is the old-fashioned lying on your back.
If You are Interested in a Vaginal Orgasm, Try This:
Start by massaging your vagina, then slowly insert your fingers (or sex toy) into the vaginal canal. Start to move your fingers or toy in a circular, in-and-out, stroking, or combination of motions.
Increase the speed and pressure as the good vibrations begin to build.
You may feel an explosive orgasm, but don’t worry if you don’t as this is not for everyone, just move on to, the next type of masturbation!
Note: One of the best positions for achieving a vaginal orgasm is squatting, as it makes it easier to G-spot stimulation.
Feel like Experimenting With Anal?
Start massaging the outside and inside of your anus, then slowly and gently insert your finger or sex toy (vibrators, plugs, anal beads, or massagers) into it. Just make sure you are using lube, as this part of the body does not self-lubricate. Go faster as the pleasure begins to build until you’re ready to finish.
Note: One of the best positions for achieving an anal orgasm is face-down doggy style because it gives you room to play with your clitoris at the same time.
To Conclude
If you are a beginner, you can start by trying the above-mentioned, female masturbation tips until you get more comfortable with it. Keep in mind that there is no right or wrong way to do it. It’s all about discovering the female body and what makes you feel good and just enjoying yourself!
