Did you know how stupendously fingers can become during foreplay? Your sexy fingers are amazing and can provide your sex partner with deep and throbbing stimulation. The finger fun targets the sweet spots and it’s preferable for solo masturbation and couples.
If you’ve been longing for a more intense clitoral stimulation, finger fucking is the best option for you and your partner. What’s the best way to finger fuck? Read on to find out some of the most incredible fingering techniques and how to prepare.
How to Finger Fuck Correctly: Getting Started
If you and your partner have not indulged in finger fucking, you need to be exercise caution. Her response to the thrusts will determine whether you’ll proceed with the play or not. Here are some of the tips to consider as you begin to finger fuck her:
- Be slow and gentle as you explore her outer parts of the vulva into her clitoris. While teasing her, you can regulate the rhythmic motion of your finger(s) at different speeds or pressures. She’ll become more receptive to pleasure as you persistently tease, finger fuck and arouse her through clitoral stimulation.
- Lick and caress her perineum, pussy lips and pubic mound before you start stimulating her clit with your index, middle finger or both. Once you insert your finger to rub her clit, ensure you make her wet with the circular, up and down or side-to-side motion.
- Listen to her verbal or non-verbal cues and discern what she needs as she moans and what she tells you. She might tell you to go faster or slower. However, if she experiences discomfort or isn’t compatible with the finger vibe you can explore other foreplay options that will make her wet.
- The first encounter of sliding your first finger will determine her response. Additionally, you can use two fingers in different motion to stimulate her G-spot and explore her sweet spots.
You need to remain persistent to ensure she finds intense orgasms and climax. Additionally, sex toys can be ideal for enhancing the finger vibe. Stimulating and non-stimulating sex toys can be useful to spice up the finger fucking experience.
How to Prepare for Fingering and When to Do It
The beauty of fingering is that there’s no predetermined time to do it. It’s meant to make your girl wet and intensify her sexual experience. You can finger her during foreplay, after fucking her hard or in the middle of fucking. It also makes her cum with ease for deeper penetration. In order to finger her correctly, you need to prepare as follows:
- Clip your nails and smoothen them to ensure they have no rugged edges that might harm her vaginal walls or lead to irritation.
- Use a lube to ensure that your finger(s) slides smoothly and rubs her clit gently. Begin with a gentle touch and gradually find momentum. You should avoid high speeds which might cause pain.
- Turn her other erogenous zones on before you slide your finger into her vulva. Additionally, don’t focus on fingering only; as you can lick her nipples and kiss her as you finger her simultaneously to ensure she finds intense and multiple orgasms.
- Watch sexy films on fingering techniques, read erotica, and ensure she consents with the fingering technique that you select.
- Ensure high hygiene standards by washing your hands before you finger fucking her and clean any sex toys you use for her clitoral stimulation to enhance sexual wellness.
- Identify the right sex positions for fingering her. If you are using the Spiderman technique for instance, you can let her lay next to you in a spooning position. However, with a classic fingering technique, a missionary position is ideal for licking and fingering her with the legs widely spread.
- Look into her eyes and create a great emotional connection. Make the experience satisfying and fulfilling.
6 Ideal Techniques for How to Finger Fuck
There are multifold finger fuck techniques that you can use to intensely stimulate your partner. Let’s dive into some of the best fingering techniques:
G-Spot Fingering
This technique applies once your partner is turned on. The G-spot is on the front vaginal wall, slightly beyond the vaginal opening. It’s a spongy erogenous zone that’s easily stimulated using various ways. You need to insert your finger into her pussy then curl it in a “come hither” position, then move the finger in circular motion while rubbing her clit.
Additionally, you can rub the clit with side-to-side or up and down motion. In this “wet raspberry” technique, you can also finger the pussy in and out, whilst putting pressure on the vaginal walls. You’ll notice how your lover reacts when you touch the sweet spots and you need to keep going to intensely stimulate her. The G-spot technique is also suitable during her solo masturbation.
Fingering Her from Behind
Besides A-spot and G-spot stimulation, you can finger her from the anus and into her vagina. While fingering her vagina, you’ll be stimulating her posterior wall. The experience triggers a different sensation that’s also sensational.
Pressure Pressing Finger Fucking Technique
Does your partner find it difficult to achieve G-spot orgasms? Pressure pressing technique is a viable approach to ensure she easily finds orgasm. In order to achieve this, you need to finger her normally, then place your other hand on her pubic bone to softly exert pressure. As a result, she’ll experience G-spot stimulation and cum.
Anal Fingering
If your partner finds pleasure in anal sex, you can experiment anal fingering technique. Anal sex enhances the stimulation of sensitive nerve endings, which provides intense pleasure. However, anal finger fucking also requires the use of a lubricant to make it more comfortable.
The anal vibe involves inserting your finger from behind, then thrust her with in and out motion. In addition to anally fingering her, you can incorporate butt play with the use of anal vibrators, beads or anal dildo. Before a full-blown anal penetration, you need to prepare your partner and ensure she consents with the anal fingering technique.
Around the World Technique
Do you want to tease her during foreplay? Around the world technique aims at turning her on before fucking her. You need to move your fingers around the clit in circular motion to stimulate it and trigger intense orgasm. Her pussy becomes soaking wet once you tease her and slip in your finger.
The Spiderman Technique
In order to achieve the Spiderman technique, you need to position your middle and ring fingers similarly to a Spiderman flinging the webs. You should then insert the two fingers into her pussy and your thumb to stimulate the clit. The technique ensures that your fingers are against the G-spot for deeper stimulation.
How to Become Good at Finger Fuck
If your partner loves fingering, you can elevate her mood and ensure she finds satisfactory play in the following ways:
Understand Her Erogenous Zones
You can be exceptional at the finger vibe if you identify all her sweet spots. Her vaginal wall can be stimulated using a sex toy, your dick or finger. Additionally, different fingering techniques evokes different sensations. You can experiment by stimulating her clit, G-spot, inner thighs, anus and more.
Additionally, the motion and pressure you embrace will determine her stimulation. She’ll be receptive to the thrust and with verbal or non-verbal cues. If you master all her sweet spots, she’ll become wet in every fingering experience.
Experiment with Her
If your partner is aroused with one finger, you are not limited to using two fingers. Teasing her and building her anticipation will enable her to experience deeper connection and intimacy. Caress her perineum, gently bite her pussy lips and find out what makes her curl her feet. Change the intensity of fingering and see what makes her find intense arousal.
Communicate with Your Partner
Her body cues will showcase her pleasure and her breath will determine whether she is closer to orgasm. If the muscles tense up or she grips something it implies that she is about to climax. Moaning is involuntary but speaks volumes. Loud moaning shows that she finds intense pleasure as you thrust her with your finger. Ask her what satisfies her as you try out the different fingering techniques.
Use Alternate Stimulation techniques
Using a specific stimulation technique for a prolonged time can become boring. As a result, you need to alternatively incorporate external and internal stimulation. She is likely to achieve intense and multiple orgasms with different sensations from the various stimulation techniques. As you explore her sweet spots, you need to use different approaches to ensure she finds it exciting.
As you rub her clit with your finger it’s important to assure her how much you love fingering her. You build her confidence and make her anticipate more sexual encounters that yield intense orgasms and stimulation.
Wrapping Up
Sometimes complimenting touch with the finger vibe comes in handy. Besides solo stroking, you can experience finger fun by stimulating your clit. Whilst you need the finger to dive in, you need to ensure it smoothly slides for an incredible simulation. As a couple, it’s time to find intense orgasm by incorporating the finger vibe today!
To explore more techniques beyond just using a finger vibe, check out our blog on how to reach orgasm faster. It covers a variety of methods like enhancing foreplay, experimenting with different types of touch, using lubricants and vibrators, and even incorporating breathing techniques for a quicker, more intense experience.
